What I want the parents of anime fans to know

Anime, Fandom

Last week, a parent asked for my advice about his teen daughter’s new interest in anime.

I was down in Florida, visiting my own parents when I got the email. “What would you advise him?” I asked.

My mom and dad weren’t sure. After all, when they raised their own anime fan daughter, there wasn’t really anyone they could ask. Anime was not as popular then and they didn’t know any fans their own age. As I wrote in my 2016 post, What I want the next generation of anime fans to know, “I wish there had been someone like me to talk to my parents when I was a kid.”

Today, anime is more ingrained in popular culture than ever. Celebrities like Michael B. Jordan and Kim Kardashian West profess their love for it. And there are lots of adult fans like me who are old enough to sympathize with parents’ concerns about anime while still remembering what it was like to be a tween or teen discovering anime for the first time.

So when uninformed parents need somebody to ask for advice, I’m thrilled when they go to me. Bill is one of those parents, somebody who found me through my Forbes page. He gave me his permission to repost a short version of his original email.

I am the father of a 14-year-old girl who loves anime and doing art related to anime. Although she is a very intelligent young lady, she is still a child is so many ways. She has been very open with us about what she is doing online and her interests.

Lately, she has been telling us about Anime Amino, a site where she posts her art and receives feedback. After reading the negatives from people on Common Sense Media, it appears that many of these anime and cosplay (not sure what this is exactly other than dress up) activities lead to sexual content at some point. If that is the case, or there’s a high likelihood of it occurring, I’m inclined to prevent her from going any further.

Online addiction aside, if she can get some positives from these experiences then I would want to continue to support her efforts. Since you are very knowledgeable in these areas, I would really appreciate any thoughts you might have regarding our situation.

—Bill

When people write to me, I try to balance my adult mind with how desperately my young anime fan self simply wanted to be understood. That’s what I was channeling with I wrote to Bill.

Hi Bill,

Anime is a medium of entertainment, not a genre. So there are many kinds of anime: action, comedy, drama, stuff for kids, and stuff for adults. Just like with the entertainment medium of movies, there’s anime that’s age-appropriate for your daughter and anime that isn’t.

So where to start? Anime Feminist is a website organizing a list of anime that is good for teens and tweens. Beneath the Tangles is an anime blog for Christian anime fans and their families. There’s also Common Sense Media’s list of anime for kids. Maybe you could check out one of the shows on the list with her as a way to check it out while also showing interest in her and her hobby.

One thing I do want to say is that cosplay (you’re right, it’s dress up) is not considered sexual. It’s about wearing costumes of characters fans admire from anime, video games, comics, or movies. (I’m certain it can be made sexual, just like anime, movies, video games, and comics can be made sexual, but it isn’t on its own.)

As far as I know, Anime Amino is a forum for mostly teen participants. You can just scroll through it to see the kind of stuff kids talk about there. Additionally, it has a lot of stuff that’s against the rules, including hate speech and explicit words or imagery.

Finally, it’s great that your daughter is being open with you about her activities because it shows a bond of trust. She’s not scared that you’re going to judge her or try to stop her from participating. I think that means that if she has a problem or does find content that makes her uncomfortable, she’ll feel comfortable coming to you about it.

Best wishes, Lauren

Thanks to the Anime Feminist team for helping me develop this response—especially the final paragraph. It’s important to remember that there are people of all ages in our community and to make it something kids still feel as comfortable as we did participating in (and something their parents feel comfortable condoning, too).

What kind of advice would you give to a concerned parent of an anime fan?

The metrics I track to build high-traffic, high-earning blogs

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Every month or so, I tell the Anime Feminist team to gather ‘round while I put together an analytics report. It’s my favorite part of what I do there. I dive into our search traffic, audience numbers, and other statistics for the entire month so the team can see which posts are the most popular and which social media interactions are paying off. It’s so exciting to see your success laid out in cold hard facts.

I’ve always found a lot of comfort in tracking website data. Unlike feelings of imposter syndrome, for example, numbers don’t lie. From when and how often to post to which features to devote most of your time to, it’s best to base your blogging decisions on the numbers.

As I mentioned earlier, I’m launching six new affiliate websites this year (with five more to go). While I work on launching these and helping them grow, numbers are more important to me than ever. Still, whether I’m tracking a baby website or an ancient one (Otaku Journalist will be nine this year!) I generally look at the same metrics.

To track my site data, I use the free tools Google Analytics (installation tutorial here) and Google Webmaster Tools (installation tutorial here). Beyond the obvious, here’s what I track and why.

Popular Pages

This is my single most interesting metric. In short, it’s the rundown of the most popular pages people visit the most often when they visit a website. It’s also the data I shared in November to commemorate Otaku Journalist’s birthday. The screenshot is of February 17-23, 2018. Last week’s post is the 7th most popular, but older posts have claimed the top spots.

In order to find it in Google Analytics, go to Behavior -> Site Content -> All Pages.

How I try to improve this metric: The older your site is, the harder it is to make stuff budge from the top 10, because people will always be finding older stuff through search engines. Still, I help new blog posts rank by writing unique, wordy content that I don’t think anyone else has. Even if it’s fairly specific, if it’s one-of-a-kind and full of helpful, non-fluffy content, people will be compelled to visit my site instead of somebody else’s.

Time on Site

I don’t care how many people visit Otaku Journalist. Instead, I care about how much value the visitors I actually have think they are getting from me. I would rather have 100 people who read my site for three minutes than 10,000 people who read it for three seconds, because that would mean there are 100 people who actually read Otaku Journalist after they click a link.

Looking at the stats from February 17-23, 2018, there’s room for improvement. Bounce Rate is a metric closely related as well—it shows how many people exit Otaku Journalist after reading just one page. It can be a sign that people aren’t finding the information they expected.

In order to find it in Google Analytics, go to Audience -> Overview.

How I try to improve this metric: I embed links within my posts that go to other posts on the site. I also have a sidebar with links to popular categories on every page. The more relevant links I include, the more likely somebody might stick around for just one more page.

Traffic sources

How did you find me? It’s the first thing I ask new web design clients because I want to know who’s referring them to me. It’s the same way with websites—I want to know if people landed on my site because of a search engine, social media, a referral link, or something else.

From February 17-23, 2018, people found me in four ways: the three I listed above, plus typing the dot-com directly into their browser’s URL bar. Since Otaku Journalist is old and has thousands of pages, most people found me through search. But some used Twitter and a few came from other places that link here, like my Anime News Network reviews.

In order to find it in Google Analytics, go to Acquisition -> Overview.

How I try to improve this metric: I link back to Otaku Journalist whenever I write for another website. I write a lot of varied, search engine optimized content that will come up in search results. And I always tweet out my latest blog posts.

Search Keywords

On a mature site like this one, or really any website that is over a year old, most of my traffic comes from search. So I like to see what people are typing in the search bar before they land on my site. (Apparently, My Girlfriend is Shobitch was a hot topic last week.)

As you know, I care a lot about keywords. I wrote a four-post series on how you can find valuable keywords to make money from blogging. On the search console it isn’t about finding new keywords, but discovering the old keywords I am already ranking for on Google. Now, if I want, I can deepen my site’s authority on topics people already go to me for. Of course, a lot of the keywords here are gonna be useless (who wants to rank highly for “cartoon porn”?) and it’s up to me to sift through and find the value.

In order to find it in Google Webmaster Tools, go to Search Traffic -> Search Analytics

How I try to improve this metric: Usually when I start a website, I pick out a list of keywords I want to rank for using Google Keyword Planner. Then, I use this tool to check if I’m actually ranking for the keywords I wanted to in the first place.

The least helpful graphic – just know they are all various links from Gunpla 101 to products on Amazon.

Outbound Links

When people leave Otaku Journalist, where do they go next? Sometimes they just close the window and go outside or something. But most of the time, they’re clicking from my site to somebody else’s site, and I want to know whose.

This is especially important for my affiliate sites. If I put a link on my site that goes to a product on Amazon, I want to know if it’s worth having. If people are clicking it frequently, then I judged my audience well and I should probably put up more similar links, or vice versa. It’s a lot of work so I don’t do this for every site, just affiliate sites like Gunpla 101 (last week pictured).

There are a lot of ways to track this. I use custom Event Tracking in Google Analytics. But if you have a WordPress blog, you can simply use the native plugin Jetpack.

How I try to improve this metric: I remove broken links as soon as I find them using Broken Link Checker. I pay attention to links that get clicked often and add similar links.

After a bunch of navel-gazing posts, I’m glad to give you something helpful, something I use for my own work. Feel free to ask for more detail or share your own metric tracking musts in the comments.

How to deal with burnout

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I think it started when I failed my Japanese test.

The JLPT is only held once a year nationally, so I started studying for it back in July. By the end of it, I was getting around 75% right on my practice tests, but the test itself had a weird reading comprehension section on medicinal herbs that left me puzzled, and I knew going out that I didn’t do very well.

In January, I got back my failing score and that confirmed it. I would go to class and feel stupid because when I spoke Japanese, my tongue felt like it was too big for my mouth. But I kept going through the motions, I even formed a new study group, and tried to keep it to myself.

Inside, I was sort of spiraling. I kept thinking of mistakes I’d made last year that kept me from studying hard. I started feeling guilty when I wasn’t studying or working, so I did a lot more of that. I was incredibly productive (though I partially owe this to leaving Twitter). And then late last week, I suddenly realized I no longer wanted to do anything at all.

So I skipped my blog update, I skipped my Gunpla 101 update. I skipped doing everything that wasn’t essential to my clients. And when I wasn’t doing that… man, I wish I could say I was out living life to the fullest. But I was not. I slept a bunch, that’s for sure.

I don’t need a psychologist to tell me what happened to me: it’s burnout. I worked too hard and then I got sick of working altogether. I used to go through burnout cycles several times a year before I started being in control of my own schedule. I guess since it has been so long, I forgot that this happens, and here I am again.

I’m sorry for anyone I worried by not updating, and by tweeting that I was depressed (I mean, I was feeling pretty down, but I knew what I needed to do to get better). If you happen to find yourself in a cycle of burnout, here are some tips from me:

Forget about shame

This post may seem kind of shameless: “I did too much and now I’m just relaxing.” There’s a lot of privilege in being able to scale down my responsibilities to the minimum and not, for example, lose my job. But I feel like adding shame into the mix makes it take longer to recover. Better to stop making excuses for why I am like this and focus on getting back to normal.

Go easy on yourself

Worrying about what others would think was one thing. Dealing with my own self-criticism was worse. What helped was making a temporary to-do list with only the very basics on it as long as I felt like that was all I could handle. As I’ve started to feel better, I’ve been able to add more and more of my usual tasks back to that list.

Avoid the extremes

I got into this mess by denying myself and it backfired. Trying to get back into an extremely rigid schedule is just going to make it happen again. I’m trying to see activities like unwinding with manga, going out for walks, and eating three meals a day as part of my productivity cycle, instead of as things that interfere with it. So I’m putting some of that stuff on my to-do list, too.

Reach out

I was really afraid to tell anyone about how overwhelmed I was feeling. I was even afraid to tell John, since he’d been working overtime and was sort of overwhelmed himself. But things started getting better when I started telling the people around me, “I need an extension,” or “Can I delegate this task to you?” People are more empathetic than you think.

Fandom, Population One

Fandom, Writing

I blame Crunchyroll for this one.

I usually use that streaming service to watch the latest anime—especially so I can review some for Anime News Network and have relevant contributions to the conversation about others. But every now and then, they casually drop an extremely old show.

I’ve been an anime fan for 20 years, but that doesn’t mean I’ve seen everything. (I didn’t even watch Akira until 2015, though any time is a good time to watch the classics!) So there’ve been times Crunchyroll has dropped an old show that has upended my entire fandom life.

This time it’s Yu Yu Hakusho. A lot of people like this show, I’m finding, but their affection for it is tinged with nostalgia, while for me it is brand new. The fandom is basically dormant. While people appear to remember the show fondly, there’s no reason for most people to draw art or write fic or cosplay or make memes or anything.

Even the least popular Winter 2018 anime will be sure to gather a following as long as new episodes are coming out. But wait 20 years, and even the best-loved shows lose their momentum.

I think my experience will become increasingly common. Thanks to anime streaming services, anyone can discover any show at any time. We used to talk about “gateway shows” and anime fandom that comes in “waves.” But now, there is no one entry point to fandom, and no limit on which show somebody might watch at any time, whether it be an old one or a new one.

So what do you do when you are the Yu Yu Hakusho fandom, population one?

Personally, I’ve found a lot of comfort in writing a fanfic. I’m interested in the show’s contradictions: a world that can be at times hellish or full of hope, with paradoxical characters to match. Since the show is about supernatural detective work, I’m writing a mystery.

I haven’t written fanfiction for four years, but that’s mostly because I don’t have to. Usually, I can just read other peoples’ takes on the story and feel like I’m part of the discussion. But since there isn’t much going on right now, I have to make my own fandom.

I write fanfiction under a fake name and my account is tied to nothing that would lead you back to me, so it’s kind of cool to write for readers who have zero expectations. It’s not as lonely as you would think, either. I was astounded when the first comment came in, followed by a second.

This fandom may be dormant, but by putting something out there, I managed to inspire a person or two to speak up. Even one person, caring and contributing, can help bring a fandom back to life.

On telling true stories

Journalism

Ever since I quit Twitter, I’ve been having more one-on-one conversations. That was how I ended up talking with Justin of Organization Anti-Social Geniuses about how we each got interested in journalism in the first place.

Why did I get interested in journalism? One of my graduate school professors knew I would be wondering about this one day. Which is why she had us all write “Why I Tell True Stories” on an envelope and stuff it with an envelope about why the heck we first decided to pursue journalism as a career. Mine is a little long winded but it boils down to this: “I believe the best way I can give back to my community it to tell its stories.”

I’ve had to open up this envelope and look at my notes several times over the years. Sometimes it has led me to rethink up my career when reporting has lost its luster and I feel like I’ve fallen away from that initial goal. Now might be one of those times.

Recently I wrote an article for Anime Feminist about Tyler Willis, a vlogger in the Lolita fashion community who got a cease and desist from the second largest anime convention in America because she offended the organizer. Not since my story about My Anime List and Nazis have I had to do so much research, fact-checking, and actual reporting. It was tough. It was definitely out of my comfort zone. But I felt good about it—like this story’s payoff was worth the trouble.

This story has only gotten bigger with Anime Matsuri’s continued attempts to silence Tyler, and Mike at Anime Herald has the follow-up today. We talked about it last week, two reporters covering the same story, and Mike echoed my thoughts on reporting it:

“[The story] made me remember why I love journalism,” he told me in Google Hangouts. “Telling the stories of the people, speaking out for those who would be trampled on otherwise.”

In the past couple of years, I’ve distanced myself from journalism a bit. I have moved on to earning most of my income from copywriting. I have never stopped writing articles, but they tend to not be of the investigative reporting variety. You can tell I don’t normally write about touchy subjects because corporations are usually happy to talk to me for Forbes. I enjoy doing these but I also keep thinking back to that envelope. I don’t want to only share business news.

It’s a little late for New Year’s Resolutions but I realized that in 2018, I want to do more reporting. And I especially want to help marginalized people tell their stories.

I’m grateful to Anime Feminist for giving me a place to do this. That blog is a little over a year old but is among the most-read anime blogs there are, with a staggering reach. More importantly, Anime Feminist’s mission of promoting intersectional feminism in our community aligns perfectly with the importance of reporting on behalf of people of any stripe.

Right now, I’m putting together some guidelines for Anime Feminist about my reporting methods. Things readers can expect me to stand by. Things like:

  • Making a good faith effort to contact every person involved in an article;
  • Consulting a lawyer for stories with a legal aspect;
  • Giving a reasonable amount of visibility to viewpoints I don’t agree with;
  • Taking complete responsibility for my work. In the worst case scenario, prioritizing publicizing the whole truth over my pride if I get something wrong.

For some helpful reading on how journalists create ethical guidelines like these, I recommend checking out the NPR Ethics Handbook, the Society of Professional Journalists’ Code of Ethics, and for some very timely advice, guidelines for covering the #metoo movement.

I know that in the past, people going through critical times have come to mutual friends asking, “Is Lauren a journalist who can be trusted with a sensitive article?” I’m hoping that by practicing fair reporting about tough subjects, I can answer that question through my actions.

Hopefully, you will never be in a situation in which an authority that should know better is treating you badly and you’re hoping to find a reporter willing to amplify your story. But if you are, or you know somebody who is, you can reach me on my contact page.

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