Thursday (Dec 21) is my 31st birthday. As a present to myself, this is the final Otaku Journalist post of 2017. This calls for some reflection.
I love doing “year in review” stuff so for today’s post, I answered 9 questions about my 2017, and I encourage you to answer these same questions for yourself. Whether you post them on your blog or answer them privately in your journal, I think you’ll find them helpful.
What made up your body of work this year? Which parts are you most proud of?
This year I wrote for Forbes, Anime News Network, my blogs (Otaku Journalist, Gunpla 101, Candle Fandom), and a few ghostwriting clients regularly. Some highlights:
- This Forbes piece I did on hentai games and how their interactivity endears them to fans, especially those with diverse identities.
- Building this stunning Master Grade for Anime News Network. I built it mostly in the National Portrait Gallery atrium, which is also my favorite Japanese study spot.
- Becoming an expert on the Texas electricity grid, of all things. (These are ghostwritten so you’ll just have to take my word for it.)
- Editing an Anime Feminist essay about disabled bodies, written by a researcher who both lives with and is looking to cure the illness that killed my brother-in-law.
- Writing here about my definition of anime after Neo Yokio turned it on its head.
What were your top 5 moments of the year?
- Holding my friend Jess’s newborn in my arms the day after he was born.
- The audience applauding after Amelia and I gave our Anime Feminist panel at CRX.
- Watching John witness my favorite childhood video game, Xenogears, for the first time.
- Sinking into an authentic Japanese onsen in my home state.
- Reaching 50,000 words on my NaNoWriMo novel.
What are you really glad is over?
Waking up crying every single day. I still dream about Jess almost every night, and I still cry about her a lot, but these dreams aren’t always sad now. Some of them even make me smile.
On a lighter note, I’m really glad I don’t have to study for the N4 anymore.
How are you different today than you were 365 days ago?
I used to take a lot of things for granted: my family, my friends, my time. I assumed I could always do things “next year.” I could bail on people and just see them later. Now I’m trying really hard not to put things off. I’ve been writing a lot of letters by hand. Just generally trying to show the people in my life that I have time for them and I care about them.
Also, 365 days ago I didn’t think the political situation could possibly get worse. Ha.
Is there anything you achieved that you forgot to celebrate?
I reached 100 Anime Origin Stories and didn’t think about it very much. Instead, I’ve just felt bad about how behind I am on responding to people.
I hit a milestone in affiliate earnings, but it’s been hard to enjoy it when Net Neutrality might end.
I got a new client in August who is wonderful. That means I started the year with just one steady ghostwriting client, but I’ve ended it with three.
What have you changed your perspective on this year?
I realized I can’t do it alone, and I should ask for help when I need it. That was part of the instigation behind my open call for Gunpla 101 contributors—I was having trouble writing it all alone, but I was worried about relying on other writers. It turned out better than I could have expected, and now you’ll see dozens of brilliant new voices on Gunpla 101 in 2018.
I’ve also decided to rethink my narratives about myself. For example, I’ve always believed “I work hard,” and used my success as evidence as that. So when I come face to face with evidence of something I could’ve worked harder on, like an article with a bunch of typos, it shook my narrative. I realized it’s better to look at it as a value rather than a trait: I can be somebody who tries to work hard, and doesn’t always succeed, but understands its importance.
Who are the people that really came through for you this year?
I have had a publically difficult year, and I was amazed by the outpouring of support I got from the anime community. Zac and Jake of Anime News Network sent me a snail mail condolence card. Isaac of Mage in a Barrel sent me two books about dealing with grief, one which arrived three months to the day after my loss when I thought nobody really cared anymore.
Of course, my friends and John were what got me through. Unending group email chains, constantly open Gchat windows, and making lots of time for game nights and Pokemon hunting excursions and potluck dinners as a group.
What were some pieces of media that defined your year?
One Piece—I started it in January and watched about 400 episodes this year. It’s a stunningly consistent show, and great for the insomnia I had a lot this year.
The Good Place—I don’t watch much American TV, but all my friends were watching this and it gave us something to talk to each other about when other topics were too sad. If I wanted to check in on somebody I’d ask, “Have you caught up with Good Place yet?”
What will you be leaving behind in 2017?
Setting needless barriers to happiness. “After I accomplish X, I can be happy,” sort of thinking. This year X has been buying a house (too expensive), cutting my mile time to 8 minutes (not there yet), and reaching certain income goals. Life is not a holding pattern. I’m already living it and it’s surprisingly short, so I might as well grab that fleeting happiness whenever I can.
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